There is nothing like hearing the words "I love you" for the first time. Whether it be from your lover or your children. I still remember the first time Fred proclaimed his love to me. It was Halloween 2000. Kidless, we partied our asses off. Well I did at least and Fred took care of me. Laying in bed, Fred whispered his love for me. In my drunken state, I still knew how serious it was. I uttered back the words. The next day, Fred asked if I still meant it. Of course I did! I love him! I do!
Fast forward today. Bodhi isn't much of a talker, unlike his sister. He is a boy of very little words. The least words the better. He has always been the cut to the chase type kid. Even when nursing. He would latch on get what he wanted and delatch. Often time he would even push my face away so I wouldn't watch him nurse. It was always about food until recently. Now I think he enjoys the cuddle time. When it came to food meals, he would yell and bang his hands until he got his food. As soon as he was done he was ready to get down from that chair. Nana and I would often joke that his date better be ready when he came to pick her up for dinner, and no small talk!
He has a handful of words: banana, mama, dada, duck (his favorite word), hi, bye, truck and maybe a few more words. Honestly, Bodhi has no motivation to talk. If he wants something, he will get it himself, which causes me more annoyances than convenience (which reminds me, we need to buy a lock for the fridge).
I keep hoping that Bodhi is just holding all his words inside. One day he will speak in full paragraphs. Bodhi didn't utter any sentences. No two worded sentences such as "more juice", "more please", or "want food." . You bet my heart melted when his first sentence to me was, "I love you, mommy," two days ago. This coming from the boy who choose to grunt and gesture until he gives up and just gets the thing himself.
No matter how many times I hear the phrase, it still melts my heart, whether it be from Fred, Desmina, and now Bodhi.
Happy Love Thursday